I'm very tight lipped about it. I don't have friends really so that solves that. I have only told one person at work and that was after I new her for most of the school year and knew she didn't gossip. I would NEVER tell anyone else, not even my big boss. He knows something is up but I will need be specific. My family knows of course because I've been hospitalized so often. But we don't talk about it. I was humiliated when I went in this year and my mother in law found out. I've found that most people just can't understand and I'd rather they didn't know.