It is really hard to not see my t who I just terminated with after 11 years. I am obsessed with needing her. I'm now seeing my cbt t who I've seen for a couple months for social anxiety. I am getting attached to him but I am hoping it won't get out of control because he is a cbt guy and doesn't do anything outside of session etc. will I just be able to do productive therapy with him with this transference stuff taking over. My guess is that he doesn't even deal with those feelings and I'd probably not tell him about them. Nothing good came of it from my first t. It is so weird how real and intense these feelings are.