Don't know if you know, but if your parents are on Medicare or your State's medical program, they can have a caregiver come to their home and help out which would lighten your load. They'll take care of their personal needs such as showers to light housekeeping. There are also visiting nurses that come by and check on their medications, medical progress, etc. and report to their doctor(s).

There IS help out there and sounds like you really need it. Don't forget to take care of YOU first so that you can take care of them. It's not selfish although we tend to feel like it is.




<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>