I also fear anger, usually when i need to take my meds the feeling comes up of angerand i take my meds and it goes away. That is just one thing i now about my anger. I also get angry when the little things happen, things not going right, don't feel like i'm being listened to, yet i seem to handle the big things like death in the family usually very well. My mother had open heart surgery, other operations, and i'm watching my mom and dad cope with being elderly now. They have saved my life by putting me in the hospital when i was sick and wouldn't admit it, but learned i was really sick and needed it thank God!!! Thanks Mom and Dad!!!!