This has always been a problem but I think it is starting to be more of a problem lately. Ever since I was little I always talked to my mom in a certain way. I don't realize it but everyone else does. They say I talk to her really mean and always give her attitude. For me it's just how I am use to talking to my mom and it's normal to me because I don't realize it. My friends have said stuff to me about it,I have lost a friend because how I talk to my parents,it is part of the reason why I get into arguments with my moms boyfriend,my old therapist noticed it etc. They have all said something about it but I just don't see what they are talking about because I have always talked to my mom that way. I can't change it. I don't know how to because I don't see why they are talking about. It's just normal to me. I am too embarrassed to talk to my therapist about it or anyone else and this is why I haven't tried to get help with it.