Blue,

Thanks so much, I needed that. That actually helps a lot, just need reminded sometimes, easy to get a little lost in things, but that absolutely helps. And thanks for the kind words too. Right back at you

The kids are ok , I told them but gently and without to much upset. I will wait till I find out more before telling them too much. They are pretty strong kids. They are not very close with my mom, taking it pretty well so far.