My husband has bipolar disorder as well as ADD. The ADD, to me, is the bigger issue for us as it drives me crazy when he hyperfocuses on a computer game, or leaves chores half way finished. The Bipolar is a lot easier for me to understand as he tends to have more lows than highs and as I suffer from depression, it's a lot easier for me to understand and relate to it. It's not easy, but he is my husband, and my best friend and this is who he is.