Just wanted to add that I'm currently going through a divorce that was dropped on me the night before I was to be released from the psych ward, 1 week ago. So I can definitely attest that bipolar ran wild can destroy a marriage. But I'm so much better off w/ out him anyway, said he knew for 14 months, but drops the D Bomb on me in the psych ward after a suicide attempt, WTF?! Anyways, I'm so sorry you guys are dealing with this, I know how painful and lonely it is.