I just recently discovered that my 15 year old has been cutting herself. I feel to blame and I don't know what to do. She didn't want me to tell her father but I did because he is my husband and best friend. I haven't told her that I told him or that she said she does it when he leaves for work(he works out of town and is gone for a week or 2 at a time) He is about to be gone for 2 months and I am so scared. How do I handle my Bipolar and now her issue plus I also have a 13 year old and I am responsible for my ailing parents. But her cutting really needs attention but I am not sure I am capable...???