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Originally Posted by wondering2014
...just wondering what other people think of this situation - if you don't feel that "spark" as he calls it now are we doomed? (and yet he really likes me, there is definitely attraction there, he says we have a great connection and he loves spending time with me??? ) or do you think we just need more time to find out? I am a bit freaked out today and could really use some advice - thanks  |
He sort of contradicts himself, right there. Definite attraction, but doesn't feel the 'spark'?
I'm a bit, confused, too.
Run it by his therapist? 6 weeks, would be about three dates, marker, sort of. If you subscribe to that, just an expression, of a point in a relationship, where one knows whether they want to get serious or not.
Sorry you are going through this.
Keep us, posted, about what his decision does turn out to be, and his reasoning.