Hi Zwang, surprisingly, your analogy actually made complete sense! I'm sorry for not understanding the first time. I did not know that when you said "people who self-harm" that you were referring to loved ones... I thought you were talking about "people" in general. My bad. I think your frog analogy is quite relatable in that case, and I'm glad you can pinpoint the source of your feelings. If only we could all...

I'm also glad that you didn't give in.

- AJ