There's always something to be gained. Yes, it might have been a loss at this point, but the fact that you've tried shows progression into a more positive alternative. Which, in my opinion, would be great!
A lot of people struggle with this, and I did as well. But there's always hope for the future. Perhaps next time you'll win. Perhaps next time, you'll be victorious and overcome what is troubling you. Just put faith in yourself and believe you will win. And eventually, I assure you, you will.