Please know I'm here for you. I wonder if you are confused because standing up for yourself, in this situation, is a bit foreign-- and that which we aren't used to can feel confusing-- but that doesn't mean it's the wrong thing to do......it's just different from what you are used to-- perhaps.....??
Anyway, My wish is for you to have much happiness as you are most deserving. I'm here anytime you may need someone-- just a PM away.
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mandy