I'm not sure how to put this but I'm wondering if a long-term meaningful relationship is possible when you (not necessarily the other person) does not enjoy or look forward to the sex at all. Also is anyone in a relationship like this and were you able to embrace all of the positives and live without a satisfying sex life?experienced

Now before anyone asks I will clarify. He is inexperienced but not without experience and I'm sure if that was the only issue we could work on that and have fun in the process. The biggest problem is physical and one of those things I'm not sure how we could discuss or resolve. I've been with a number of different men of varying sizes and they were all adequate (with one tiny exception). Anyway this person I am with now that I like and could see this developing into something, has a pencil ****. Physically it does nothing for me.

So I'm trying to figure out how important a satisfying physical relationship is over the long-term. I almost feel like I'd be a liar and terrible person if I feigned enjoyment every time for 10 years.