Ahhh then there you go! Yes, the answers that we sometimes hear are difficult to sometimes follow through on, but isn't that what surrendering is all about?
When we do that, it shows that we are willing to do what pleases God/Unifying Spirit and in turn, we then are rewarded by the outcome of our willingness to pursue that which may be difficult but not impossible for us to do. Whenever we are asked to do something that may be difficult, we are always given the tools with which we need to do the job.
I think two of the hardest things to do is to be patient and to go where we are asked to go, but when we get the payoff for surrendering, obeying and succeeding is absolute bliss!