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Old Oct 06, 2013, 12:05 AM
almakic88 almakic88 is offline
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I do this too. I think it's actually because I'm so adaptable and can easily see and understand different people's viewpoints, life philosophies etc., and I'm also very curious and open-minded so I find it easy to agree with others. Sometimes I feel bad about this quality, because we live in a culture where you are expected to be really "individualistic" and "super-opinionated and 100% original" about everything, but I've always found it so much easier to find the ways in which I'm similar to people, and people to me, than to construct this illusion of my supposed "difference" (which I personally believe is illusory anyway). For that reason cultures like Japan which emphasize group harmony have always been more appealing to me.

Don't feel bad about this quality, as it just makes you open-minded and adaptable. These are strengths, as life requires a lot of adaptability and openness to change! <3

Keep being your lovely self!

~Alma
Thanks for this!
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