It would have to be a virgin along the same lines as me, someone who needs sex but just hasn't had any. I'm running out of patience, as I've said women find virgins my age a turnoff. I thought it was noble, boy that might have been the dumbest thought I've ever had. More than anything, it's the feeling that any basic pleasure any human being can have is never meant for me. I'm being teased, but it's not happening for real. I have 3 1/2 years to find sex and/or love. If neither is achieved by my 35th birthday, what's the point?

I've seen articles on "practical advantages" of being an older virgin. Are they either patronizing people like me or on something? If someone chooses that lifestyle, that's great. For someone like me, it's more than degrading. That's why I'm looking into paying for sex. It's that or have an empty, useless life because those pleasures are not meant for me.