I am best if I avoid mirrors, most photos (of course the old ones look better now than they did then...?) ---am with splitimage without the ability to do make up...but there are times (rarer now) when I feel good by dressing "up" or just in something that feels, and I think looks, good. Funny thing, long ago now, I remember being surprised when I saw a video I was in (I was a co-group leader ) and found I did not mind watching myself work---it seemed odd, because I usually dislike my voice when I hear it also...but myself in motion, not thinking about myself, just doing my job was surprisingly ok. We used the video to critique and discuss what happened etc...