Hope this topic isn't closed.My mother uses money as a way of clinging to me. I admit I need to learn to be better about my finances but she will loan me money like it's all okay then tell me she needs it back right after loaning and gets mad.She will then say you only come when you need money.That is not true.It's often her health issues that cause me to miss work.She will say she is not going to loan any more money and say hateful things only to say later she is sorry and the cycle continues....what other than watching my money can I do??My brother stays away.