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Originally Posted by Thorn Bird
Thank you healingmeforme I would obviously not approach him when he is 'raging' I was thinking of the calm after the storm - But anytime is difficult because I never know how he might react and 'rage' - You are so right about it affecting you both physically and mentally - I am finding it hard to stay or to leave which I know is a contradiction but I suppose I just feel lost and insecure Thank you so much for your reply.
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I can appreciate, feeling stuck 'inbetween' making any decisions about your relationship.
It's easy to feel lost, as you begin your journey to understanding just what it is about the relationship that's hurting you. It's similar to coming out of the 'fog', without comprehension of what sunlight really is.
I remember, grieving for a while, long before I made any decisions.
It will be ok