View Single Post
 
Old Oct 06, 2013, 01:44 PM
healingme4me's Avatar
healingme4me healingme4me is offline
Perpetually Pondering
Community Liaison
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: New England
Posts: 46,298
Quote:
Originally Posted by Thorn Bird View Post
Thank you healingmeforme I would obviously not approach him when he is 'raging' I was thinking of the calm after the storm - But anytime is difficult because I never know how he might react and 'rage' - You are so right about it affecting you both physically and mentally - I am finding it hard to stay or to leave which I know is a contradiction but I suppose I just feel lost and insecure Thank you so much for your reply.
I can appreciate, feeling stuck 'inbetween' making any decisions about your relationship.

It's easy to feel lost, as you begin your journey to understanding just what it is about the relationship that's hurting you. It's similar to coming out of the 'fog', without comprehension of what sunlight really is.

I remember, grieving for a while, long before I made any decisions.

It will be ok
Hugs from:
Thorn Bird