What I mean, is that for times necessary do you feel most at ease allowing him his cave time? Dosen't it improve the love between you both when you have discovered he needs a small social break while you are both still at the house? In other words, have you resisted impulses to get close when you sensed he was under some duress and vice versa?

It is just becomming easier for me (Finally) to see it for what "Is" and back off or vice versa him to back off (still being in the same building, yet not talking or touching much to improve and grow adoration, "For "absence, (real or a mental break) makes the heart grow fonder." Are there any successful interesting stories of benefit from this allowing house space, that you would not mind sharing about yourself and spouse here at the board? It is so neat when we can reminice about the days we cherish with those we tenderly love. Thanks. Robin Razel