I literally just discussed this last session with my T. She didn't actually say which one was which, but the feelings that I felt were similar to yours and she said it was "normal" feelings to have in a "good relationship". So...from what I inferred from her description was that "transferential" feelings can be linked to more of a person or past issue while the normal feelings are more reflective of the effect T or t is presently having on you (even if its a new reaction to a past way of thinking or feeling?).