I have not been to Attorney; I cannot get myself to go...just want to cry thinking about it. I just can't. Yes, I am preparing for the future....full speed. I thank you for advise; I really appreciate it. Problem is without degrees at my age makes it really really rough...its like going backwards; and with no help. When you are alone; you are alone. Mother is sneaking around, plays games with me, and rages. I must now keep options open for finding a soulmate...that might give me another place to hang around at?? Maybe. Definitely foul play though on her part. Not her money though; deseased fathers monies. I am going to try to make up for lost time...wish me luck.