One runs fast to another T and if that one flakes out, you run fast to the next until you come to one that is not even close to being that incredibly creepy and unprofessional.

Try not to mistrust all docs because of one screw-up. Instead I like to look at them one on one and see how they screw up. Many do, some don't. There are incompetent people in every field after all. Sometimes it takes awhile to seek one out that is really a good match.

Give them a chance, but don't hesitate to cruise on out if they demonstrate incompetence or make you feel uncomfortable in a way that's not therapeutic.

Sorry to ramble. I'm not much help. Too wired to focus my thoughs tonight. In summary, keep looking until you find a T that's not a flake. Good luck...