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I'm so sorry. I'm the worst person in the world to give advice on this scenario as I struggle with son. I just wanted to let you know I read your post and I am thinking of you. Not much help, I know. It's a hard situation. We would not let strangers treat us the way that our children do sometimes. Hang in there. I hope some more knowledgeable people are able to help here.