I'm sorry you have been caused pain here, at a place we should feel safe from pain. I disagree that this is not a place for an emotionaly activist. I think there should be room here for us to speak our peace. Of course, some may be offended, but others will benefit. As long as the offense is not done to harm another then you can only do your best. Just because someone is offended doesn't mean you are to blame. I rather like the AA saying "take what you like and leave the rest". Take care.