I used to hate my scars and I hid them for years and years... I mostly only harmed myself on my legs, but I too have some pretty bad a very visible scars. Then one day, I just decided I didn't care anymore. They are a part of my past, but they are also something I have overcome in my life. (I am in recovery and haven't self-harmed since before June of this year.) I don't know if you are in the same spot or not, but if so, please remind yourself of this. If you are still self-harming, that use this to motivate yourself to recover.