thank u all for ur replies. It is a tough time for me and I am not able to talk to any of my friends or family regarding this. There is literally no time for me to myself apart from the few hours in the morning before he wakes up and so I couldn't really do much for myself to think a way to solve everything. Problem is we are in other ways great together and when we are cool, we talk about marriage and stuffs. If he gets over all this, it will be great. But if he doesn't, the marriage will fail or he will breakup after being together for 1-2 years by which time I feel that I might lose my own identity. I have told him to walk out many times and scolded back for being offensive to me but I am not able to end it or come to any proper decision.