I'm young(ish) female and prefer older males (20yr difference- no sex transference-I hope). Nobody would have guessed- given my history and issues - but it works just fine. The way I see it I got hurt by male I need to see not all males are that way- I do over generalize quite a bit . Plus I'd hate the coddling I imagine I'd get from a female T- tried one and she was terrible- kept using the bird with broken wings metaphor -now where's the barfing smilie when you need one