Female. My T is male and he's around my age.
I usually find males easier to talk to. It doesn't feel as pressured to me, and I can usually just share what I want without undergoing an inquisition. Plus... I feel like emotion and sympathy is more genuine.
I know that it's silly, it's just how my own patterns in life have gone. So I'm fine with having that in a therapy setting. I just don't do well with overly affectionate people.
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"I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am.
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