Can I throw a little hissy fit??

This weekend was supposed to be our weekend away without the kids, going to pearl jam concert, outlet shopping, etc... But- because of the gov't shutdown, furlough, don't know when H's next check will be.. We had to sell the tickets. and cancelled our trip. Well, mother in law still wants to have the kids sleepover on Saturday. So, H and I will be a whole day and night without the kids and all he wants to do is stay at home and work on house projects. SERIOUSLY! That is not what I want to do with a kid free weekend. I suggested when drive an hour south of us, go for a fancy dinner and maybe stay the night in a hotel. Put- he will have no spending of money this weekend. Just sad..