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Old Oct 08, 2013, 12:16 PM
almakic88 almakic88 is offline
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Originally Posted by dumburn View Post
definitely not, I remember being maybe 14/15 and trying to talk about university and possible careers with my father he said "People like YOU don't go to university, they'd never accept a dumb**** like you anyway, people like you are locked away to keep everyone else safe and happy"

I think that's the point I pretty much gave up trying to impress him or do well for myself.
Self fulfilling prophecy at it finest!
I'm so sorry dumburn. I know how hurtful that can be because my folks said the same thing to my older brother when he was that age. You are not a dumbass. You can do anything you set your mind on. Don't listen to what your father said because he was likely projecting his own failures onto you.
Thanks for this!
dumburn