Obviously, t and mary smith are partners. They might even be roommates. If it were me, I would ask my mother, because my mother knew that my long-term t was a lesbian before I ever had a clue. She even said that this t was "trying to make me like her" - which was in itself a confusing statement, because I rather thought mum meant prefer t to mum, but now i think mum meant as in recruit!

So what do you think? Are you gonna be okay with this?