I am female and wanted a male T. I had a bad experience with a female before, and also I like the 'otherness' of my T - he can't imagine how something would feel as his body is different to mine. Plus I have an ED and I think I would have issues with comparing myself to a female T.

I have to say it has been immensely helpful and healing to have this kind, safe male figure given I've had so many issues with men.