I am so very grateful for you all here...thank you for your care and understanding...well today I decided that I could not take anymore from him...He left me another message on my phone stating he was coming in an hour to bring the realtor to do a walk-through in the house...at first I felt scared but decided that I had to talk to him...by law he has to give me 48 hours notice before he comes..I told him this, and then we had a "deep" conversation..no anger, but I told him exactly how I felt he was treating me...for the first time I was doing the talking and he was listening to me..at one point he said I was acting like the b word...but I told him how I have felt harrassed and mistreated by him..he then apologized to me, and said that he is hard sometimes on the outside..he said that he is going through a difficult time right now, and I acknowledged that me not paying the rent has affected him in a negative way..He said that he says things the wrong way most times...my heart was deeply touched...and then he told me about how he loves God and prays for me and my family...I apologized to him also, and we worked it out..guess, we both had something to learn in this...prob I should have told him when he did the first thing to me how it upset me...anyway, today I saw character and integrity in him....he also does not want us to move...I am praying without ceasing now that the rent comes through for him, and this will be ok...I feel so blessed to be able to share with you all....