TimeO..you can do it...I remember a time when I was so very afraid, and so under his control that I never thought that I could be free...it has been a journey..but one that has brought me to be able to breathe the air around me that is not affected by him..I am just learning to be able to be who I want to be, even though I sometimes don't know who she is...but she is able and that is what is important...keeping thoughts of you close to my heart..