I am so sorry you are experiencing so much. As gayleggg suggested, you should see counselor if you have not already. Losing someone so close like that will always be tough and I am experiencing that now.
I know it may seem so difficult but I like to think that the people we lost really don't want to see us this way. I'm sure your girlfriend would want you to be happy and I hope you can take some steps to getting here. Welcome to PC, we are here to help as we can
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Allie
Diagnosed: Generalized Anxiety Disorder & Obsessive Compulsive Disoder. Previous: Borderline Personality Disorder.
I no longer qualify for a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there will always be my borderline traits that I struggle with especially during times of great stress.
I've been working passionately as a therapist since December 2016
