I am on the lists to get help with housing. I am number 1212 on the HUD list and the wait is approximately 3-5 years. I do get food stamps and health insurance for my kids. When my parents offered to let is move here they told me to leave my car which I didn't think would make the trip anyway. My parents did inform me that if I just decided to leave I could no my take my SUV so we would have no way to go. The kids both have therapists they see weekly along with many other appointments.