well it sounds like you did the right thing then, and now it is time to do the right thing for yourself... and that IS to reach out and find a new T. Perhaps this could be one of your questions during interview? The new T's reaction and response might tell you quite a bit...
yes, they have to mind their words because some ppl do make things up to get a reaction from Ts, but it's important to you so it should be to them too... and they need to treat it with care... up to you
There are many more good Ts out there, I'm sure!