I'm getting this distinct feeling that the more my therapist gets to know me the more she backs off because I'm just unpleasant. This makes me want to quit, obviously. I feel like a lost cause.

For example, a few weeks ago she was all like "no you're not needy or demanding, other people in your life have not met you fairly" etc, and she was warm and I believed her. But last night it had changed to "well we'll see if you are needy and demanding, and understand why and see what we can do to change it" and I felt a bit...I dunno. Like she's seeing how awful I really am and doesn't feel I'm worth it. Other little things have changed too, like she's become more formal in her communication with me, less relaxed and warm and friendly.

It does hurt but I can't bring it up can I? She's not paid to like me, so what does it matter? Except it kind of does, to me.