Underground do you love, do you feel, do you feel remorse, shame, inadequacy ? Not just asking for asking's sake. My partner is NPD and sometimes he is not forthcoming with these things - he sometimes says 'I am sorry for how I am' after a heavy 'raging' session. I love this man and want to support him - I accept the 'cycle of abuse' even though it hurts but I would sol like to get inside his mind to find out his need for 'N' supply and his fierce projection again injury to him self - what is behind the person with NPP - because I can see so much good - it isn't always bad!