Hi Indestructible Girl, I feel pain to read this from you! I feel like you're a really lovely and nice person here on the forum and I can't imagine how anyone would describe you as not good enough. If you do decide to bring it up, you can say exactly what you said here, that you cannot bear to hear her say why you're not good enough. Sorry I'm not really good with words, I just want to let you know I support you and hope you can be kinder to yourself eventually and see yourself as very wonderful, like the rest of us do...