I sorry to here about the break up with you gf and that your T wasn't able to be there for you the way you needed her to be. You needed her to be kind and what you got was truth. I think when I am seeing my therapist to whole purpose if for her to show me honesty, which is more that I can get from anyone else. And I hope she does it gently but sometimes she has to be tough because on my own I tend to screw up my life. Maybe you didn't like what she said but maybe you can benefit at a later point. Good luck to you and I hope you next appointment goes better for you.