Being borderline I am pretty sensitive and yes she has hurt my feelings on several occasions. I have not cried but have gotten angry, I use anger to cover my vulnerable feelings such as sadness/hurt.

When I have blown up it is a written personal attack and it has almost caused a rupture in our relationship. So I now will write what I feel for us to talk about but try and do it with a cool head and hand.

I am learning and trying to reason that she sometimes says things not realizing that I run with it usually in the wrong direction. At times she tells me things and then proceeds to say, "now Lonewolfie, I am not saying this to hurt you." Because she knows I sometimes take things said and my mind warps it into something it is not.

So these things happen in therapy, I don't think t's do it on purpose and as for being on your/our side. Don't know what to really say about that. T's want the best for us, I believe that.

LW