I am newly diagnosed BPD high functioning, but my husband has some real issues with rage and anger where i am more passive hes so happy now because he says its been my fault hes that way even though he has no friends his kids couldnt wait to move away from him even camping he would yell at all of us we coward in the front room waiting for him to cool down kids never wanted to go with their dad he would say such means things to them so i was almost always there to stand up for them but he now turns it around and says its my BPD wanting to protect my kids so he would get mad at me.. ?????????????????????????? I am so confused now....what do I believe????