Very informative article, unhappyguy!! I also agree with unhappyguy on finding a new t that is willing to work WITH you on your issues related to your gender expresion.
Another good point unhappyguy made is the LGBT forum & chat. If i'm on, feel free to drop me a line or PM me anytime!
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Personally I identify as Queer because while most of the time I feel male, there are times that the female side comes sneaking out & that's ok with me......... embarassing at times.... but still ok... I made a decision to not have bottom surgery because I don't like the risks associated with it, & there are toys that work great! Testosterone I'm still on the fence with, but leaning toward not doing. Top surgery , while it sounds good & probably the only one I might consider doing, pretty much means losing feeling in 2 very sensitive spots & I would REALLY hate to do that!! Everyone has to make their own choices
though, just make sure you have all your ducks in a row first.

I hope this helped you some...