I'm sorry I hate it when my T misses the mark and is too far ahead of me. Don't they get that we need them to be by our side?? And I *despise* the victim thing...if I knew how to just snap out of it, my T wouldn't be making $$$ off of me lol

I wish your T could've been there the way you needed can you ask her for what you need? I know it's hard....