I think much abuse now towards children in the home is really due to the highly sexualized nature of some homes now. Don't get me wrong, I'm no some crazy conservative whack but I really think sex and the younger generation needs some sort of governance. I mean where do you draw the line? Much sexual abuse now towards minors is by people who are still young themselves, say a child of 10 getting abused by a male of 16 for example, and much of this is due to that 16 year viewing porn since hell it could be 10 years of age these days. Just to put that into perspective, imagine how a young boy of 10 who watches porn up until the age of 16 views women around him?
Porn is fine as long as you respect women and don't let it take over your life. It can quickly become an obsession and many things done to women in sexual relationships currently, is due to what men see in porn. Most men never would have asked their partner for things such as a deepthroat or a facial if they had not seen it in porn. Porn made men think that all women liked these acts or that they gone on in every relationship so the man felt he had to make his partner do these things, they think it is the norm but it is not, but it is now I guess because more and more men and teenage boys expect this from their girlfriends/wives.
Teenage years were a confusing enough time before online porn was around, now it is the talk of the playground and lunchtime. Teens sharing it on their phones, talk of the latest sexual craze or fetish. There's so much incest porn on porn sites now, which some teens almost see it as an acceptable thing to do.
That really is a worry in my eyes. Two siblings may think sex between them is fun or exciting but wait until those two siblings grow into adults.. Then what? Such behaviour could cause deep trauma and disgust at oneself in adulthood. Asking how it happened? Why it happened? Knowing now that it was wrong and should never have occurred.
And how will teenage incest impact on how they raise their own children? The boy who abused his sister as a teen may think that he can also abuse his daughter when she is a teen, and the cycle never f***king stops.
My point really is that abuse is not going away but seems to be getting worse, and as a society we need to face it and try to educate more. Kids need to know what is right and wrong, parents have the greatest responsibility of all. Most abuse happens at home, make sure it does not happen in yours.