My best friend who is slowly but surely killing her "best friend" status (long stories) always invites me here and there..party party, bars, concerts...bla ba bla. The first few was cool because I needed that time for myself to remind my brain that "I am 21 years old!!!". That was sweet..but no it's beginning to bother me. It's like she's forgetting I have two babies at home and that partying is not an option for me...ya know? It's either me being a damn part pooper, or her not realizing I am a full grown, mother and wife with responsibilities......what would you say??