When my T left for her 4 month summer "interruption," I hit a point where I needed contact badly enough that I googled her. Almost by accident, since she somewhat disguises it, I found her Facebook page. I obsessed over it for a day, downloaded a pic, and then left it alone because I, too, felt creepy about it.

I'm about to resume sessions with her (yay!), and I have debated telling her, but decided I will solely because her page is quite public--photos, friends list, etc., all there for viewing. I'm not at all looking forward to telling her of my breach (we have very firm boundaries, and she's pretty private), but I have a feeling she's not aware of how accessible her page is, and I want to give her the heads up if she feels she needs to tighten things up a bit.

I don't feel bad about it anymore. It was a rough time, it was public information, and I used for nothing other than satisfying my need to feel in contact with her. I owe it to her desire for privacy not to do it again, but other than that, no harm, no foul.